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The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins: A Tool to Stop Panic Attacks

Writer: Daniel NosratiDaniel Nosrati

Updated: May 15, 2024

Introduction

The 5 Second Rule is a simple yet powerful tool developed by Mel Robbins, an American television host, author, and motivational speaker. This rule is designed to help individuals overcome the habit of overthinking, procrastination, and self-doubt. It can also be particularly effective in managing panic attacks.



Mel Robbins Teaching the 5 second rule

The 5 Second Rule Explained

The 5 Second Rule is a form of metacognition, which involves tricking your brain to switch mental gears. The rule is straightforward: the moment you have an instinct to act on a goal or a commitment, you must physically move within 5 seconds, or your brain will kill the idea.

When you count backwards, 5-4-3-2-1, you interrupt the habit of overthinking, awaken your prefrontal cortex – making change possible. The counting distracts you from your excuses and focuses your mind on moving in a new direction. When you physically move instead of stopping to think, your physiology changes and your mind follows.

The 5 Second Rule and Panic Attacks

Panic attacks often occur when a person’s mind is caught in a cycle of negative thoughts and they feel unable to break free. The 5 Second Rule can help by interrupting these negative thought patterns.

When you feel a panic attack coming on, you can use the 5 Second Rule to shift your focus. Count backwards from five and then engage in an action that will distract you from your anxious thoughts. This could be anything from taking deep breaths, visualizing a calming scene, or even just getting up and moving around.

Anchor Thought

An Anchor Thought is a positive mental image that you use to replace the anxious thoughts that trigger your panic attacks. It’s called an anchor because it keeps you grounded and prevents your mind from being swept up in a tide of anxiety.

When you feel a panic attack coming on, you can use your Anchor Thought to help bring you back to reality and away from the irrational fears that your mind is creating. This could be a happy memory, a place where you feel safe, or even an imagined scene – anything that can help you feel calm and secure.


How Anchor Thought Works

The Anchor Thought works by leveraging the power of your imagination to change your emotional state. When you’re caught in a panic attack, your mind is often imagining the worst-case scenarios. But you can use that same power of imagination for your benefit.

By focusing on your Anchor Thought, you’re forcing your mind to imagine something positive instead of something negative. This can help to decrease your anxiety and stop the panic attack. Over time, with practice, your mind can even start to associate the onset of a panic attack with your Anchor Thought, automatically triggering calming thoughts instead of anxious ones.


For Example, My anchor thought was this:

I am excited to see my dog everyday, she makes me feel warmth and happy.

So I picture in my head me and my dog moments at the time im about to have a panic attack. So that is the Brain hack how it shift my mind to my favorite funny moments with my dog, instead of what i was about to panic about. I did this about 10-15 times a day for a month until my panic attack subsided. After 30 days Panic attacks were Gone!!


Conclusion

So the 5 Second Rule and the concept of an Anchor Thought are powerful tools that can help you manage and prevent panic attacks. By understanding and practicing these techniques, you can gain calmness, and empowering you to live a more peaceful and productive life. Remember, it takes practice and patience, but over time, this brain hack can make a significant difference. Remember it took me just 30 days.

So, “5-4-3-2-1”, engage with your Anchor Thought, and take control of your life.


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